What Are Soul Contracts?
"It is common to ask questions during the hypnosis about a possible life partner. Whether one has met their twin flame, soulmate, or if there is 'THE ONE' or many for them out there. And yes, we all have certain soul contracts (karmic connections) and every path, also the state of awareness is unique."
The Role of Karmic Connections in Relationships
Often love coaches have the idea that if one works on their own emotions and practices self-love, anyone could potentially be a match, and it's vital to find the one, outside of oneself.
How Your State of Awareness Influences Your Path
Yet the level of awareness, whether people are ruled by entities or perhaps by ego, soul contracts, etc., may be overlooked.
Debunking Myths About Perfect Matches
In fact, many men and women are aware of each other and relate with each other on a superficial basis.
Can Anyone Be 'The One'?
It may be of potential concern for the youth or young souls who may lack in communication skills and might not even dare to have natural conversations or physically meet, just stumbling on each other in virtual reality or virtual reality games also in the form of created characters.
The Influence of Self-Love on Relationship Dynamics
I conduct a lot of hypnosis sessions and for each soul, answers about life partners are very different.
Modern Love and Its Discontents
Living in Amsterdam and communicating with people from all over the World, having traveled the World, dated many, experienced sincere love and depth in relationships, and also superficiality, done research in Dutch dating apps, I can say from experience the number of perversions that human beings may come up with to substitute happiness both online and offline seems to be growing unless time is taken to be in silence and to allow the soul to surface and guide.
Superficial Connections and Online Dating Woes
Is the other viewed and experienced just for taking or enjoying, is the other a throwaway object, like a commodity, a thing, or is deep connection still possible? How are we treating ourselves and others?
The Impact of Virtual Realities on Young Relationships
What happened to simply loving, simple interaction and communication without distorted inner or outer reality?"
The Illusion of Falling in Love
People seem to be looking for the outer happiness, the outer love to make them happy and very few are truly happy just being.
The Trap of External Validation in Love
Observing the highly popular TV programmes and love match reality shows like 'Love Island', 'The Bachelor' etc., it seems people enrolling in these programs are mostly experiencing the process of fast dating including all possible external attractions. The process of falling in love is translated into meeting the One and for the majority of the contestants, happiness means finding that love outside of oneself that could potentially make them happy or happier.
Reality TV Romance vs. Genuine Connection
Yet being whole is first and foremost about balancing the masculine and feminine energies inside and being happy in the first place. And that doesn't always come with the predisposition that one is destined to be with someone or needs to look for the outer match.
Finding Happiness Within, Not Through Others
Believe it or not, for some, the higher self-guidance may be that in this lifetime they can be truly content by just being happy on their own and without all the external stuff...
The Illusion of Falling in Love
Liberation doesn't necessarily mean trying out or having many sexual partners, orgies, dominatrix parties, etc., to feel the highs, to feel anything to be happy.
Why Real Love Is More Than Just Butterflies
If one needs all those things, it may be an indication of a lack of something to fill up the emptiness within. On the topic of falling in love, many people fall in love because of the physical attraction, law of attraction, sexual energy, butterflies in the stomach, and presume - that is an indication of love or matching, being drawn to another. Eckhart Tolle once put it, falling in love simply indicates falling and not necessarily being aware or fully present with the other.
Wholeness: Beyond the Search for a Partner
Usually, the falling contains quite a bit of sexual attraction with the addition of pink glasses. When that attraction fades, usually reality hits and it may hit hard! That being also the reason why most of the reality show contestants do not end up together longer than a few months or max a year after the show and glamour is over and the falling in love period is finished."
Balancing Internal Masculine and Feminine Energies
Often diving into the relationship without actually getting to know the person on a deeper level is almost a given in the modern world. That is partly the reason for so many divorces. One falls in love, which may scientifically last from 3 - 8 months before one knows it there are kids, and material obligations, and then the realization might kick in that the spiritual awareness is different, there's very little actually in common, or worst case one doesn't even feel comfortable in the presence of the other; there may be deep unhealed wounds, life purposes, or lifestyles not matching. The list goes on...
The Challenge of Self-Reflection During Quarantine
Why so many people find it hard to be in quarantine at home during the Corona virus, is because humanity has not been put in a situation to face themselves in a long time. Before quarantines, people were quite used to mostly escaping from themselves, from home, having lots of entertainment, traveling, being at work, overworking due to circumstances, engaged in other types of escapism.
Being Comfortably Present with Oneself and Others
On current Earth, I witness many people having difficulties listening to their own needs, truly understanding themselves, being comfortably present and enjoying their The own company, never mind being actually present with others and truly listening without assumptions about the other or wishing to see the other in a different 'better' light to match a wishful vision about the other. The majority of human beings operate from their ego perspective, pushing their views on others or thinking that others may see the world exactly like them.
Conclusion: Are You Ready to Discover Your True Self?
Are we truly just lambs on a run or lost stars lighting up the dark? Have you thought about what's going on with you? What are you looking for? Are you happy, content, and experiencing love with or without a partner(s)? Are you with your soulmate or twin flame? Is there the one for you? Or are you the One? Is there a significant other or a soul contract waiting to be met and fulfilled during this lifetime? Have you ever tried to measure what is your level of awareness, how close you are to the truth, pure consciousness? Or how close the people you meet are to the pure consciousness, the truth? Is your level of awareness matching or far from each other? The answers are deep within and can be unlocked or understood with hypnosis session(s) and pendulum dowsing!
The Power of Higher Self Insights
Few love coaches or life coaches can give advice or reflect based on the depths of the soul. The Higher Self, OverSoul, and Higher Mind can see things from a broader and deeper perspective that is truly unique for you and gives the most accurate answers about You and your current process.
Invitation to Explore Personal Growth and Happiness
It's all about trust in the process itself, which may or may not include a life partner or partner. Are you interested in finding out about yourself and your process? Wisdom is within and waiting to unfold - you are so welcome to try out some services that may assist in this process, such as Online Hypnosis, Quantum Healing Hypnosis Technique, and Pendulum Dowsing.
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